BoysWork

<<Back to Speaking Page

TAMING THE DRAGON
Power, Conflict and Love with Teenage Boys

Teenage boys can drive you crazy! Raging hormones, exploding emotions, reckless behavior, and alienated withdrawal. Like dragons, they can be dangerous whether they're awake or asleep. Do you know what the quiet ones are up to?

This is no fun for parents. It takes courage, tenacity, and cleverness to tame the dragon; to know where the jewels reveal the soft underbelly and the way to its heart. Come to this impactful presentation and receive the weapons of knowledge and skill that'll enable you to tame the dragon and take him home for dinner.

BOYS WORLD
The Magic and Mystery of a Boy's Life

It's just a chromosome, but boy what trouble and confusion it causes people. The Wall Street Journal reports that the astounding rise in boyhood "disabilities" is leading a growing number of parents and educators to pose "a troubling question: Is boyhood being pathologized?" Is common boy behavior a malady?

Boys World separates fact from fantasy. A bare-knuckles, straight to the heart look at active, rambunctious, loud, dreamy, inattentive boys so parents can rest their minds knowing what's really going on.

MAKING MEN:
The Play and Perils of Modern Boyhood

Boys mystify parents and teachers alike. The overlooked fact is that boys are in training to become men. From birth to maturity, life unceasingly carries them to this conclusion. It is a noble and worthy destiny. Full of play, it's a perilous path.

How are they preparing? What are our families, institutions, and culture offering as images and identities as men? What manhood will they come into? Why has boyhood become so difficult?

Making Men is a bare-knuckles, straight to the heart look at active, rambunctious, loud, dreamy, inattentive boyhood and the raging hormones, exploding emotions, reckless behavior, and alienated withdrawal of adolescence. Provocative, challenging, and controversial, the world through their eyes and experiences, Making Men is an invitation to adults to re-imagine boyhood from birth to maturity.

HOW IN THE WORLD DO I TEACH MY SON TO RESOLVE CONFLICTS?
An Introduction to Peacemaking As A Martial Art

Talk is often not enough. It's darn near impossible to have effective conflict resolution when your body state is tense, angry or frightened. Chances are, despite your the best intentions, it's going to go up in flames. Successful conflict resolution depends on having a peaceful body state, the kind martial artists develop.

"How In The World Do I Teach My Son To Resolve Conflicts?" introduces parents to five fundamental skills that result in an ability to meet threat, hostility, bullying, and outright danger in a confident, flexible, effective manner that can neutralize any conflict.

"How In The World Do I Teach My Son To Resolve Conflicts?" is fascinating, fun and effective. Don't be surprised if it wets your appetite to participate in a Peacemaking As A Martial Art training program.

Family Matters:
POWER, CONFLICT & LOVE
An Essential Guide to Family Matters

It's everywhere, but it's not usually talked about: who has power, what is power, how is it used, the wherefores, why's and hidden potentials of conflict and what it's all got to do with love: the mainstay of the family. This presentation is unique, different, charts new territory and will make clear qualities of the family that never made sense before. Hold onto your seats for an unusual ride.

DADS: THE MOST IMPORTANT MAN IN A CHILD'S LIFE

The truth is out. Children need their fathers to grow healthy and happy. The most modern research confirms that fathers are equally as important as mothers and offer irreplaceable qualities to child-rearing. This insightful, interesting and provocative presentation examines the role of the father and the skills which make him the most important man in a child's life.

THEY DON'T LISTEN TO ME

I can't tell you how many times someone in a family says, "they don't listen to me." You'd think listening would be the most common and easiest thing to do. Wrong. The fundamentals of family communication usually fail so fast nobody even knows what went wrong.

They Don't Listen To Me is a captivating, effective, and humorous introduction to the art of listening. There is no tool more powerful, no act of love more generous in family matters than the practice of listening.

FEAR, FORM AND THE FAMILY
The Shadow Shapes of Family Matters

Everyone is afraid to talk about fear. Why, it's frightening! Yet, fear is growing stronger, exerting its influence on families in subtle and harmful ways. It hides in the shadows shaping the family. Before you know it, all kinds of family affairs are based on fear. The outcome? It creates more fear further undermining the strength of the family.

This presentation isn't afraid to discuss fear. It exposes the how's, whys, and ways fear forms the family. Bring your courage, your heart and your spirit. With love and imagination, fear is released into strength and vitality.

WHAT REALLY MATTERS:
Reimagining the Family for the 21st Century

There is intense competition for controlling what really matters in the family. Out of the competition, the children are calling out to parents to be courageous. It may not look that way, but don't be fooled. Few things are as they appear to be, including the family. At the heart of the competition is our image of family. It governs (usually outside our awareness) everything. Right now, the images of family don't fit our future and new ones are up for grabs. Creating an image of family with soul is courageous and can ensure the family grows members that thrive and contribute their deepest purposes with grace, strength and love.

GLUE YOUR FAMILY TOGETHER

If the squeaky wheel gets the grease, laughter is the glue that holds the family together. Learn how to use laughter and play to make family life more fun (that's right FUN!). Humor can bring the family closer. Even in the face of adversity. When times are tough, the tough start laughing. After all, laughter is the shortest distance between two people.


Humor and Health
JEST FOR THE HEALTH OF IT

Laugh and feel better. Giggle and change your biochemistry. Smile and improve your mood. Research shows a connection between humor and health. Learn how the healing powers of laughter and play turn negative stress into positive energy. This presentation is a comprehensive light hearted introduction to the magic of mirth. But, beware . . . laughter is contagious.